1. Authoritative doubt: Hold your beliefs and knowledge with ‘authoritative doubt’. A balance of your expertise and your uncertainty.
2. State of flow: Nothing is fixed. Everything is always in a state of flow. 'This too will pass.’
3. Respectful, collaborative and evolving: The narrative of your life (and work) is respectful, collaborative and evolving. You are in a constant state of impermanence (The paradox isn’t lost on me!). You remain present and with reality, rather than in a story about what should be. You look for what is required now. You adapt and respond respectfully, collaboratively, and you keep evolving.
4. Alongside: New explanations are viewed curiously and add to, rather than replace existing thinking. You think ‘As-Well-As’ and look for ‘And-Both’ possibilities. For example: How do we support flexible working AND commit to connecting and building relationships as a team.
5. Enquiry: When unexpected things happen, you get curious. You choose enquiry over grasping for definition. You recognise that fixating on definitions and 'being right' are what we sometimes do to feel safer (to feel like we know). In exploring new and emergent realities, grasping for definitions can blinker us to possibility. It can make you miss more information than you see.
6. Meaning: You explore meaning and messages rather than argue about facts. You see dilemma’s not as problems to be fixed, but as messages to learn from.
7. Dilemmas: You see ‘solutions’ as dilemmas that are simply less of a dilemma than you had before. You know that a problem often doesn’t have a simple resolution and there doesn’t always have to be an answer.